So the lived experiences of actual black people when they speak up and straight up say ”this is happening to us” means....what, then, in comparison to actually

So the lived experiences of actual black people when they speak up and straight up say ”this is happening to us” means....what, then, in comparison to actually having dealt with said racism personally? If it’s hard to believe because you haven’t lived it, then is listening to the multitudes of people also not enough?