There's a difference between getting something out of a relationship, or even having the relationship contingent on that benefit, and doing absolutely everythin

There's a difference between getting something out of a relationship, or even having the relationship contingent on that benefit, and doing absolutely everything short of what will land you in prison to get the maximum benefit for the minimal cost. My favorite local breakfast place only serves me because I pay, but I forgot my wallet one time and they just waived the charge. There's a spectrum between altruism and exploitation, and it's important we put pressure on large organizations to stay away from the exploitation end because it's clear some won't do it on their own.