I'd like the opposite essay, how to be more conventional-minded. It's exhausting feeling continually unable to accept conventional wisdom and go with the flow.

I'd like the opposite essay, how to be more conventional-minded. It's exhausting feeling continually unable to accept conventional wisdom and go with the flow. Questioning everything is absolutely not all upside; there isn't time or energy available to do it, so you've gotta either tune a huge chunk of the world out, or cynically reject it, both of which are alienating and unpleasant.