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IMHO PG's best essay since thinking for yourself is a complex topic that underlies many of his previous essays yet is explained so well here. A few things stuck
by gregwebs 6y ago
IMHO PG's best essay since thinking for yourself is a complex topic that underlies many of his previous essays yet is explained so well here. A few things stuck out to me that could have deeper explanations:
I suspect conformity has just as strong of a relationship with childhood environment as genetics. Ironically heavy-handed parents trying to create conformity can create rebels. Loving and understanding parents can create conformists unless they emphasize independent thinking. Personally I try to avoid telling children what exactly to do and try to listen to them, essentially treating them like adults: this is explained in the book "How to Talk so Kids Will Listen".
"Resistance to being told what to think" is given in this essay as working with curiosity, but I think it can also have a negative feedback. The independent thinker can be less curious about ideas they are told by someone else. However, the same phenomenon may help explain the mentioned individualization of curiosity: the ideas the critical thinker thinks of as coming from themselves naturally generate curiosity in those areas.
- qPM9l3XJrF 6y agoAnother idea for instilling independent thinking in kids is to troll them: https://imgur.com/a/GLDrD https://imgur.com/a/GLDrD In the comics Calvin doesn't catch on, but in my experience if you keep making the tale taller and taller, kids will start to figure out what's going on and be more alert in the future.
- gregwebs 6y agoI agree, it is one of the great joys of parenting :) I think it helps a lot with imagination, curiosity, and "fastidiousness about truth" since they need to keep evaluating whether what you tell them is true. A deeper variant of this that I do is focus more on giving them incorrect justifications for things. This helps with evaluating the reasons given for why something is true rather than the idea itself.
- __jf__ 6y agoMaybe I’m overdoing it but like true Bayesians mine just don’t believe me anymore. Instead they will just believe troll stories from others.