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You say you respect her decision, but then in the same breadth go on to say you think it wasn't her decision at all. You've written much in this thread to stra
by bigbubba 6y ago
You say you respect her decision, but then in the same breadth go on to say you think it wasn't her decision at all. You've written much in this thread to strangers on the internet about how you believe it was a wrong decision. You have a peculiar way of respecting others' opinions.
- cubix 6y agoBy respect I meant that I didn’t attempt argue with her husband about it, or say anything to her, which would have been pointless anyway.
- didibus 6y agoBut did behind her back?
- drooogs 6y agorespect is orthogonal to agreement. why would it even be necessary to say you respect someone's decision if you agree without reservation?
- bigbubba 6y agoRespect seems incompatible with airing your criticisms to strangers on the internet. That, to me, is not respectful.
- cubix 6y agoMy aunt passed away a few years ago now. Her husband will never read this. The rest of the family agrees with me as far as I know. I don't see who I'm disrespecting by publicly and semi-anonymously questioning those decisions in retrospect.
- bigbubba 6y agoVictimless disrespect is still disrespect.