100% agree on the fact women get a ton more interest, there are studies and blogs about it, including this experiment: https://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-d

100% agree on the fact women get a ton more interest, there are studies and blogs about it, including this experiment: https://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/ https://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-tria... However, what is interesting, and what they talk about in the link above, a highly attractive women (good pics), will get 10-20x the interest than just an “okay” looking woman. To your point on software engineer... no woman really cares too much... (unfortunately). There are dozens of software engineers already expressing interest in her, the question that you need to answer for her is “What makes you special?” Can you make her laugh? Do you and her share common interests, etc. Anyway, not a professional here... all of this is based on my observations and “intense learning” over the last 3 months of being single again.