> Can someone explain the seeming asymmetry between men's and women's experiences in online dating? The key factor is that dating app userbases are often 80% t

> Can someone explain the seeming asymmetry between men's and women's experiences in online dating? The key factor is that dating app userbases are often 80% to 90% men. Couple this with the inequality others point to, and you get a very toxic outcome. Most women are absolutely overwhelmed, and most men are starving for crumbs of attention. The experiences are so wildly different as to be unimaginable to most people. So people don't develop strong empathy for their counterparts.