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I was actually hoping to hear more about the kinds of messages that men receive. Back in my single days I never received any messages from women unsolicited so

• throway98752343 6y ago
  Looking at the last few times a woman messaged me* first: 1. Oh hey [Name] Srry for the late msg [3:24 AM] I just wanted to take initiative since I was the first to match and all.. 2. hey! having any good adventures in quarantine? 3. hit me up w a netflix rec [my bio mentioned this] 4. Hi there. From your emojis you say art is helping you get through this. What kind of art are you doing? 5. Hi [Name] 6. Hi [Name]! You seem adventurous 7. why are u holding onto that [mammal in one picture]! that's horrible ! 8. Where’s that volcano picture from? Of these, 3, 4, 7 and 8 are tailored to my profile. 4 is a decent, if unexciting, opener. 8 is pretty dull. *30's straight white American male without visible issues, based in a major city listing college, a good job, and a female friend-vetted bio and gallery. As other comments suggest, my match rate went from awful to not terrible when I got better pictures.