I think the wave particle analogy problem is simply that we've reached a scale where the physical properties of the universe don't necessarily have human scale

I think the wave particle analogy problem is simply that we've reached a scale where the physical properties of the universe don't necessarily have human scale analogues. It is impossible for us to visualize things that can't exist at our scale. I think a sentient intelligence that lived at the scale of photons would be equally confused by our concept of waves.