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> so that you no longer seem genuine. I've heard this criticism of NVC, and to me it doesn't make sense why this is blamed on the method and not the person. Ma
by SoSoRoCoCo 6y ago
> so that you no longer seem genuine.
I've heard this criticism of NVC, and to me it doesn't make sense why this is blamed on the method and not the person. Manipulative people will use any tools to manipulate.
- spaetzleesser 6y agoMy sister is pretty well meaning but her use of NVC can be pretty annoying. It requires some social skill to recognize when NVC is appropriate and when not.
- SoSoRoCoCo 6y agoThat is exactly my point.
- csharptwdec19 6y agoThe issue is that once the damage is done, it very quickly loses what impact it had as a tool. If a person has been in a corporate or even personal environment where NVC was abused, -any- use of it might cause someone to put their 'shields up'
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