I am a bit late, but I want to add my 2 cents, because I see a pattern here. My wife had serious complications after birth, so she basically wasn't there for t

I am a bit late, but I want to add my 2 cents, because I see a pattern here. My wife had serious complications after birth, so she basically wasn't there for the first 4 months. We had help during work hours, but all the rest of the care fell on me. I woke up 4 times a night to feed our kid, took him with me almost everywhere (in one of these https://media.s-bol.com/RoDEQRlMPRYY/386x840.jpg https://media.s-bol.com/RoDEQRlMPRYY/386x840.jpg ), sat with him when he couldn't sleep, etc. We bonded hard. My wife reported similar feelings like those described in the other comments. It took her a few years to catch up.