This is true for me as well. When my child was a few months old something clicked and the constant crying wasn't bothering me anymore. Since then, things that u

This is true for me as well. When my child was a few months old something clicked and the constant crying wasn't bothering me anymore. Since then, things that used to irk me are no longer affecting me. But I remember saying to myself that the baby isn't in control and they're not trying to be annoying on purpose, all babies cry (most of them of course) and there's no reason to get annoyed, it won't help me or anybody. I think it helped. Now at most I get a bit stressed out when the crying is very loud and incessant, but it does not register the way it used to. I remember the in first weeks I was a wreck and a lot of it was my own doing, I was anticipating the future distress and was getting annoyed in advance.