The love and empathy part is just what allows you to fix your relationship, it's not actually what fixes it. This is akin to taking meds to suppress panic atta

The love and empathy part is just what allows you to fix your relationship, it's not actually what fixes it. This is akin to taking meds to suppress panic attacks in order to undergo therapy to truly circumvent the panic/agoraphobia loop. The drug is a tool; it can't relieve you of the responsibility to do the work yourself (no matter what lazy people may want to believe).