Sadly, it often happens with doing work on a volunteering basis, whether it is open source or organizing communities. I do put in as much effort I want or have

Sadly, it often happens with doing work on a volunteering basis, whether it is open source or organizing communities. I do put in as much effort I want or have committed to. But then, people expect more, even if I explicitly say I am not for that (e.g. discontinued projects, expecting free consulting, and getting offended for even a suggestion of paid options). For example, I used to run the biggest Data Science group in Poland. It was a lot of effort to grow it from nothing to 14k participants. Yet, after explicitly saying that I don't answer questions about moderation (and even worse: messages pushing me to review a post right now), it keeps happening. If I don't (and I try to keep my boundaries), people get offended. I think there should be a message (regardless of the context): if someone is volunteering, DON'T EVER push them to do more than they committed to. Pushing for more is as reasonable (and kind, respectful, etc.) as telling a stranger to go and clean your dishes. For free. Right now.