Yeah, this is a popular saying, but couldn’t be further from the truth for the most successful people. Probably. What about the rest of us who aren't really lo

Yeah, this is a popular saying, but couldn’t be further from the truth for the most successful people. Probably. What about the rest of us who aren't really looking to those people for any kind of framework? Part of the whole "thinking there's a grand narrative" that caused me anxiety was trying to model after all of these "successful" people, what they were doing, and realizing I wasn't any happier for it. Lately, what's brought me a lot of calm wasn't the chase of an "end state" (so to speak) but more optimizing my path. That, personally, and only speaking personally has been INFINITELY more rewarding. If that's the "it" factor, then so be it ;)