So what you're saying is that.. I am responsible for my happiness, and that other people are not to blame for the choices I made in regards to my behavior and l

So what you're saying is that.. I am responsible for my happiness, and that other people are not to blame for the choices I made in regards to my behavior and life, especially straight white men? Wow, that's a hard cookie to swallow. (for the ones who read this far, what I wrote is sarcastic).