Hey Greggman3, I had a similar goal. My 2 golden nuggets are: - Find out if you can diagnose with the Big 5 whether you'd be more of a fit with someone (or in

Hey Greggman3, I had a similar goal. My 2 golden nuggets are: - Find out if you can diagnose with the Big 5 whether you'd be more of a fit with someone (or in my case: the HEXACO model -- a derivative of the Big 5). In my case: I need someone who scores quite high to extremely high on openness. My whole strategy on finding an amazing girlfriend always revolves around this. So far, I'm 4 years in :) - Read up on assorted mating theory (check the wiki, just a few paragraphs) When you have the right approach, finding an amazing partner is actually really easy, albeit there's work to do. For more inspiration see also [1]. What I took away from this talk is not that she went all techy on it, but that she made a very clear strategy on how to find her life partner. It's the best example I could find of that it's quite easy (but hard work), when you have an approach that works for you. Finding an approach that works for you is the toughest part. [1] https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_webb_how_i_hacked_online_dating/transcript https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_webb_how_i_hacked_online_datin...