- Right now, my wife gets the benefits of being married to somebody with a better job (insurance, I'm sure there are other things slipping my mind) - I love he

- Right now, my wife gets the benefits of being married to somebody with a better job (insurance, I'm sure there are other things slipping my mind) - I love her and want good things for her right now. That may change after years go by. But there's no reason to ignore how I feel now and make decisions based on how I might feel a long time away. - Symbolism is important. It might not be tangible, but you can't deny it has effects in the world.