Or you could get a prenup that protects each partners assets at the time of marriage and negotiates the spousal support to be provided, ( or perhaps no support

Or you could get a prenup that protects each partners assets at the time of marriage and negotiates the spousal support to be provided, ( or perhaps no support ). A prenup is fundamentally a discussion between two people, that love each other enough to marry, on how they will treat each other in the event of divorce. I would much rather have an uncomfortable discussion before marriage with the woman who loves me enough to marry me, than to leave my fate in the hands of a woman who hates me enough to divorce me. A solid and fair prenup would be a hard requirement for me to get married.