I think boys in general are just too unaware of subtle differences in status, face, clothes, words, etc. That makes huge difference in how you converse and beh

I think boys in general are just too unaware of subtle differences in status, face, clothes, words, etc. That makes huge difference in how you converse and behave with each other. Generic bad word insult is probably not going to affect me even if targeted. I am not going to remember it but I have noticed women do and for a long time even if minor or as a joke. My female cousin had a journal where she entered things about people and scored them.