How does this work? "the decision to have a child with someone you are not romantically involved with and, in most cases, choose not to live with" I can under

How does this work? "the decision to have a child with someone you are not romantically involved with and, in most cases, choose not to live with" I can understand that a lot of divorced marriages end up in a similar state - this just sounds like getting to that state more quickly - what outcomes does that bring for the child/ren?