This freaks me out as someone who briefly thought about getting married but largely talked myself out of it after a close relative (who's much more social and b

This freaks me out as someone who briefly thought about getting married but largely talked myself out of it after a close relative (who's much more social and better at relationships) ended up in a horrible divorce with a kid involved. To date, I don't really see the advantages of being married - seems like a whole lot of risk to take on someone who will likely change in 3-5 years.