The first link details how it's easy to fall into the trap of preaching the gospel to others and even making them feel bad about themselves: https://www.lesswro

The first link details how it's easy to fall into the trap of preaching the gospel to others and even making them feel bad about themselves: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/6NvbSwuSAooQxxf7f/beware-of-other-optimizing https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/6NvbSwuSAooQxxf7f/beware-of-... I think maybe you conflate complaining with hostility. Humans, even rational ones, complain when things go counter to their expectations. It's normal human behaviour, and everyone, everyone does it. It's so universal and basic, an AI would probably not be complete without it.