That's insanely rough, it's so hard to imagine that someone can go through all that and come out the other side. It even sounds like the doctors themselves were

That's insanely rough, it's so hard to imagine that someone can go through all that and come out the other side. It even sounds like the doctors themselves were dismissive of you. Maybe it's not so much that people aren't looking for solutions, but they don't want advice from people who haven't yet shown that they understand what they are going through/need?