> I think you need to cool down. I think this is unfair. The response is probably calmer than what I would have passed back in my best effort, had I been the o

> I think you need to cool down. I think this is unfair. The response is probably calmer than what I would have passed back in my best effort, had I been the one engaged. > move on if not interested, but blaming people for trying to help in a social setting On HN (and with a higher bar), I would be blaming people for talking past me in seemingly bad faith.