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I'am always intrigue by these "range problems / statements" I guess there are no great insight other than most timelines(ranges) are subjective. My S.O is alwa
by rawoke083600 6y ago
I'am always intrigue by these "range problems / statements"
I guess there are no great insight other than most timelines(ranges) are subjective.
My S.O is always complaining that we are spending too little time together( I really don't think so).
I asked her once, so if we had to spend 23.5 hours together that will be obviously too much, and spending 0.1 hour together will be too little (we could both agree on the extremes), yet somewhere between those extremes are a number we both are comfortable with and feel is correct. It's just not the same number.
- jacobush 6y agoOn the face of it, it sounds like you have a great bargaining chip here. For the extra hours you think are "too much", come up with an activity which involves you both, but you immensely enjoy. You might both grow!
- rawoke083600 6y agoGood tip :)
- eggsmediumrare 6y agoIn my experience, it's almost never actually about how much time but how you spend that time. TV doesn't count, doing dishes doesn't count... Walks, talking, mutual hobbies do.