I don't think they were explicitly trying to interpret that term specifically, the vibe I got was that a person's character is open to interpretation. If 'grab

I don't think they were explicitly trying to interpret that term specifically, the vibe I got was that a person's character is open to interpretation. If 'grab em by the pussy' is what you wanna focus on specifically that's your deal. But there are other facets outside of just the use of that phrase. I'm not saying it was proper or the right thing to say but in context of discourse it intellectually disingenuous to use that as an excuse to shut down an entire conversation