Transparency doesn’t mean that anyone cares or is looking, just that the information is available. My wife doesn’t just randomly pull her phone out throughout

Transparency doesn’t mean that anyone cares or is looking, just that the information is available. My wife doesn’t just randomly pull her phone out throughout the day and check where I am. She uses it to answer a question like “is he on his way home / can I start supper?” or “he’s normally home 3 hours ago, has he even left work yet?”. And generally only once I’ve not responded to her just asking me. If I wanted to go buy her a surprise gift I’d just tell her beforehand “got some errands to run after work be a couple hours late” or walk out on a weekend and say “running to the store, back in a couple hours”. In that case unless I take way longer than I figured and don’t check in or respond to her checking in she has no reason to check where I am.