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that this article is just about staying competitive. Moral of my story (and this article), is stay competitive, you don’t have to crush it, but don’t lean back

that this article is just about staying competitive. Moral of my story (and this article), is stay competitive, you don’t have to crush it, but don’t lean back too far either. There are a large number of people, including smart and successful and accomplished people, who work to live, not live to work. For the people who live to work (myself included), it's a good reminder to stay competitive and avoid complacency. But you have to understand yourself and what you're looking for. And that's what I think the real moral of the story is: understand what you want, what makes you happy, and what gives you meaning and purpose. Then make sure you're working towards that. Too many people forget to do the first thing and skip straight to the second because they inherit the answer from their environment without questioning it. For lots of people the answer to that question is not career related.

runawaybottle 6y ago
But my dear friend, the economy doesn’t give two fucks about what you want. It is making part time door dash delivery drivers and Uber drivers out of college educated people. It’s making Classics majors into web developers via bootcamps, it’s hiring out in India, and it’s making the tech you know today sound literally stupid on your resume within 3 years. You’re also in a ageist industry, so there’s time working against you too. What you or I want is no longer a question afforded to us sadly.
- ganafagol 6y ago
  Sounds like you need to switch jobs.
- munchbunny 6y ago
  But my dear friend, the economy doesn’t give two fucks about what you want. Indeed the economy doesn't, but, my dear friend, that's not the point. You're not the economy, and you can't escape the shell you were born in (yet). You only get to choose which game you play. So, my dear friend, if you're going to lose the game anyway, at least pick a game you actually want to play.
  - cafed00d 6y ago
    Your comment reminds me of the line from Dead Poets Society: _We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for._ PS: how good was that movie?! So Good!
    - lisper 6y ago
      It's a noble sentiment, but poetry means different things to different people. Personally, I get a much bigger kick out of a well written snippet of Lisp code than I do from your typical sonnet. Here's a poem I wrote back in high school in reaction to the famous quote, "Poetry is the art of creating imaginary gardens with real toads", which I was taught was by Emily Dickinson but turns out to actually be by Marianne Moore. In any case... A poem is a thought that tried In vain, just once, before it died To reach the page's Right hand side ;-)
      - kian 6y ago
        Thank you for that beautiful sentiment. They're only words, and always spoken much too late to stay -- only for a moment, then they take the breath away
    - runawaybottle 6y ago
      It’s good but someone well attuned please quote some poetry that speaks of the viciousness of a brick wall met by toil. That’s when you got to get real. The romanticism of good faith and idealism is romantic, but a lot of good expression is rooted in despair. I see despair in that anecdote, the desperate plea of ‘don’t you see what I feel?’. We have to infer that such an unstated thing needed to be dramatically expressed, for no other reason than catharsis. Which leads us to the conclusion that, yes, there is a story of sadness here.
    - sdht0 6y ago
      This good quote can be interpreted better by realizing that those two groups are not mutually exclusive. There is sufficient poetry, beauty, romance, and love in medicine, law, business, and engineering. I just finished watching Manolis Kellis explain [0] how computational biology is transforming our understanding of the human genome and changing how we treat diseases. Who will argue that this is not a gripping story of how humanity has risen in it's ability to understand how the world works and consequently to control it. This exciting adventure has both passion in the seekers and beauty in what they have found. And of course there are endless songs (e.g., [1][2]) already written about this noble pursuit. [0] "Decoding a Genomic Revolution: Manolis Kellis at TEDxCambridge" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlVZ0ORtpPM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlVZ0ORtpPM [1] "The Molecular Shape of You (Ed Sheeran Parody)" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8FAJXPBdOg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8FAJXPBdOg [2] "A Capella Science - Rolling in the Higgs (Adele Parody)" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtItBX1l1VY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtItBX1l1VY
- in_cahoots 6y ago
  If you play your cards right then you still get to call the shots. When I was young I worked my butt off- I went to the right schools, got the right jobs, built the right skills, and most importantly, built a network. Now I’m in my 30s and have the flexibility I sacrificed earlier. This year I decided to switch jobs and literally updated one line on my resume. I figured out what I want (work-life balance, good money but not necessarily the most prestigious company) and managed to get a new job paying more than the job I left behind. If you want to reach the top of your field then sure, you always have to be hustling. But for the rest of us we are lucky to be in a field where there is a degree of comfort and flexibility.
- steve_b 6y ago
  What you or I want is no longer a question afforded to us sadly. I'm genuinely curious: Are there periods of history where people could choose what to go into without it having a large effect on their income or quality of life? From my point of view, it seems like our standard of living is at an all-time high and our freedom to choose what we do with our lives is unprecedented. But I'd be open to being shown empirical evidence to the contrary.
  - runawaybottle 6y ago
    The whole economy since the beginning of time unless you are wealthy. Remember the 50s in America? That lasted forever right? You don’t need empirical evidence for this, the hard data is there on a variety of industries. If you believe we’re immune to these forces you’ve got another thing coming.
- bartvk 6y ago
  You sound defeated. You mention a number of movements in the industry, then draw the conclusion that these are so strong, for all of us, that we no longer have any say. Are you depressed?
nine_k 6y ago
I can only quote the Red Queen: "Now, here, you see, it takes all the running you can do, to keep in the same place." One needs to stay competent, if not competitive, to stay employable, even for moderately advanced and moderately-paid positions. There's no chance to learn the craft and expect it to stay the same for a lifetime.
- Barrin92 6y ago
  >One needs to stay competent, if not competitive, to stay employable if you are reasonably competent you can get a boring coding job at a large firm that pays probably twice the average national salary. Software development pays so well compared to other sectors and is so starved for workers pretty much always, and unemployment is basically nonexistent, I think like the author you might confuse "working hat hip startup XY and making 200k" with being employable and living comfortably

runawaybottle 6y ago

But my dear friend, the economy doesn’t give two fucks about what you want. It is making part time door dash delivery drivers and Uber drivers out of college educated people. It’s making Classics majors into web developers via bootcamps, it’s hiring out in India, and it’s making the tech you know today sound literally stupid on your resume within 3 years. You’re also in a ageist industry, so there’s time working against you too. What you or I want is no longer a question afforded to us sadly.

ganafagol 6y ago
Sounds like you need to switch jobs.
munchbunny 6y ago
But my dear friend, the economy doesn’t give two fucks about what you want. Indeed the economy doesn't, but, my dear friend, that's not the point. You're not the economy, and you can't escape the shell you were born in (yet). You only get to choose which game you play. So, my dear friend, if you're going to lose the game anyway, at least pick a game you actually want to play.
- cafed00d 6y ago
  Your comment reminds me of the line from Dead Poets Society: _We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for._ PS: how good was that movie?! So Good!
  - lisper 6y ago
    It's a noble sentiment, but poetry means different things to different people. Personally, I get a much bigger kick out of a well written snippet of Lisp code than I do from your typical sonnet. Here's a poem I wrote back in high school in reaction to the famous quote, "Poetry is the art of creating imaginary gardens with real toads", which I was taught was by Emily Dickinson but turns out to actually be by Marianne Moore. In any case... A poem is a thought that tried In vain, just once, before it died To reach the page's Right hand side ;-)
    - kian 6y ago
      Thank you for that beautiful sentiment. They're only words, and always spoken much too late to stay -- only for a moment, then they take the breath away
  - runawaybottle 6y ago
    It’s good but someone well attuned please quote some poetry that speaks of the viciousness of a brick wall met by toil. That’s when you got to get real. The romanticism of good faith and idealism is romantic, but a lot of good expression is rooted in despair. I see despair in that anecdote, the desperate plea of ‘don’t you see what I feel?’. We have to infer that such an unstated thing needed to be dramatically expressed, for no other reason than catharsis. Which leads us to the conclusion that, yes, there is a story of sadness here.
  - sdht0 6y ago
    This good quote can be interpreted better by realizing that those two groups are not mutually exclusive. There is sufficient poetry, beauty, romance, and love in medicine, law, business, and engineering. I just finished watching Manolis Kellis explain [0] how computational biology is transforming our understanding of the human genome and changing how we treat diseases. Who will argue that this is not a gripping story of how humanity has risen in it's ability to understand how the world works and consequently to control it. This exciting adventure has both passion in the seekers and beauty in what they have found. And of course there are endless songs (e.g., [1][2]) already written about this noble pursuit. [0] "Decoding a Genomic Revolution: Manolis Kellis at TEDxCambridge" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlVZ0ORtpPM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlVZ0ORtpPM [1] "The Molecular Shape of You (Ed Sheeran Parody)" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8FAJXPBdOg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8FAJXPBdOg [2] "A Capella Science - Rolling in the Higgs (Adele Parody)" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtItBX1l1VY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VtItBX1l1VY
in_cahoots 6y ago
If you play your cards right then you still get to call the shots. When I was young I worked my butt off- I went to the right schools, got the right jobs, built the right skills, and most importantly, built a network. Now I’m in my 30s and have the flexibility I sacrificed earlier. This year I decided to switch jobs and literally updated one line on my resume. I figured out what I want (work-life balance, good money but not necessarily the most prestigious company) and managed to get a new job paying more than the job I left behind. If you want to reach the top of your field then sure, you always have to be hustling. But for the rest of us we are lucky to be in a field where there is a degree of comfort and flexibility.
steve_b 6y ago
What you or I want is no longer a question afforded to us sadly. I'm genuinely curious: Are there periods of history where people could choose what to go into without it having a large effect on their income or quality of life? From my point of view, it seems like our standard of living is at an all-time high and our freedom to choose what we do with our lives is unprecedented. But I'd be open to being shown empirical evidence to the contrary.
- runawaybottle 6y ago
  The whole economy since the beginning of time unless you are wealthy. Remember the 50s in America? That lasted forever right? You don’t need empirical evidence for this, the hard data is there on a variety of industries. If you believe we’re immune to these forces you’ve got another thing coming.
bartvk 6y ago
You sound defeated. You mention a number of movements in the industry, then draw the conclusion that these are so strong, for all of us, that we no longer have any say. Are you depressed?

nine_k 6y ago

I can only quote the Red Queen: "Now, here, you see, it takes all the running you can do, to keep in the same place." One needs to stay competent, if not competitive, to stay employable, even for moderately advanced and moderately-paid positions. There's no chance to learn the craft and expect it to stay the same for a lifetime.

Barrin92 6y ago
>One needs to stay competent, if not competitive, to stay employable if you are reasonably competent you can get a boring coding job at a large firm that pays probably twice the average national salary. Software development pays so well compared to other sectors and is so starved for workers pretty much always, and unemployment is basically nonexistent, I think like the author you might confuse "working hat hip startup XY and making 200k" with being employable and living comfortably