I think you and I are in agreement, my point was that our job is about being aware of where those bonds could exist, and where concern is warranted. The exact

I think you and I are in agreement, my point was that our job is about being aware of where those bonds could exist, and where concern is warranted. The exact location of the line depends on the individuals and the relationship i'd imagine. Mine is pretty far back. I wear my heart on my sleeve (is that the right usage of that term?) and form bonds quite easily. Yet, i'm intensely devoted for various reasons - so i keep the opposite gender at a respectable distance.