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I think that any set-up with trust is fine and am glad your wife and you have harmony. In our relationship, it's definitely the opposite. We specifically, acti
by cm2012 6y ago
I think that any set-up with trust is fine and am glad your wife and you have harmony.
In our relationship, it's definitely the opposite. We specifically, actively avoid bonds that could get romantic vibes.
- adkadskhj 6y agoI think you and I are in agreement, my point was that our job is about being aware of where those bonds could exist, and where concern is warranted. The exact location of the line depends on the individuals and the relationship i'd imagine. Mine is pretty far back. I wear my heart on my sleeve (is that the right usage of that term?) and form bonds quite easily. Yet, i'm intensely devoted for various reasons - so i keep the opposite gender at a respectable distance.
- saagarjha 6y ago> I wear my heart on my sleeve (is that the right usage of that term?) Maybe? It means "I make my emotions readily apparent", which might not be what you meant.
- vorpalhex 6y agoEven if your goal is to be monogamus then you should be aware that humans form relationships a bit easier than we like to believe, and understanding infatuation goes a long ways to heading off that behavior when it becomes inappropriate to your situation.