to be honest... i did that for almost 20 years where i previously worked. i thought of my co-workers as family and friends and it got me no where and caused l

to be honest... i did that for almost 20 years where i previously worked. i thought of my co-workers as family and friends and it got me no where and caused lots of stress (its hard to say no to someone when they are friends). i don't know, maybe it had more todo with co-dependency than anything else. now i've been working at a place for almost 3 years and i'm not friends with a single person here. i don't let these people know my business and have a complete separation of personal and work relationship. i honestly have less stress cause i can say no without giving a crap if my co-worker gets mad at me or doesn't want to talk to me (which i prefer). i do my job and go home to be with my friends and family. also, if another opportunity comes my way, i have no problem giving my 2 weeks notice and packing my bags. life is a lot better now.