Disclaimer: I have not gone to school in the US, so I'm not fully aware of the situation. I don't think it's an either or. Boys do need strict rules to some ext

Disclaimer: I have not gone to school in the US, so I'm not fully aware of the situation. I don't think it's an either or. Boys do need strict rules to some extent, and if there is a lack of them that can be a systemic issue too. But the rules need to take their nature into account, and give opportunities for physical exertion, with play and sports.