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> and have my guests stay in a hotel I'm curious, have you actually paid for friends to get a hotel room while they were visiting you? How did that work? I'm
by landryraccoon 6y ago
> and have my guests stay in a hotel
I'm curious, have you actually paid for friends to get a hotel room while they were visiting you? How did that work?
I'm trying to imagine how I'd even offer without making it awkward. I don't think I could avoid making an already uncomfortable wealth disparity even more cringe-worthy.
I think if I had to go that route I would at least rent an entire house on an AirBnb so I could stay with my friends - that way they're actually staying with me, rather than in a hotel in the same city.
- kelnos 6y agoYeah, that was my first reaction to that bit. Most of my friends would feel uncomfortable about me paying for a hotel room for them, and that would make me feel uncomfortable. I agree on the larger AirBnB option; I think that's a great way to keep everyone together and (both physically and emotionally) comfortable.
- cyberdrunk 6y ago> Yeah, that was my first reaction to that bit. Most of my friends would feel uncomfortable about me paying for a hotel room for them, and that would make me feel uncomfortable. Also, it means that they can basically never propose to come visit you (as they'd put you in an uncomfortable situation of having to approve/deny the hotel expense) and would only come by when you initiate the idea of a visit.