I would suggest be less social then. The more people invited in the more rules. I don’t use social media, and stick to purpose focused socializing; play music

I would suggest be less social then. The more people invited in the more rules. I don’t use social media, and stick to purpose focused socializing; play music, technical work, etc. If I don’t have something scheduled I spend the time with myself. You want more of a sense of freedom? Stay away from people.