I would extend the term "communication" to also include how we speak and listen to ourselves I don't think I am able to explain it clearly without writing a ve

I would extend the term "communication" to also include how we speak and listen to ourselves I don't think I am able to explain it clearly without writing a very long post. There's a really good book by Marshal Rosenberg, titled non-violent communication, which gives a better explanation than I can right now. I would recommend it to pretty much anyone, if only for the very healthy way of treating oneself that it provides. Mileage may vary, but it fits my mental model pretty well As an aside, I'm very glad to read through the replies to your post and see all the constructive you've engaged in. I've gotten mare than a few new thoughts and ideas because I chose to get involved in this post - thank you :)