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> Because its your project and you can do whatever you want. Its all in your head Well yes, you can. But I think most people feel obliged to respond to feedbac
by ZephyrBlu 6y ago
> Because its your project and you can do whatever you want. Its all in your head
Well yes, you can. But I think most people feel obliged to respond to feedback, and in fact probably want to respond.
Perhaps it's different for mature projects, but my personal projects are a source of perpetual disappointment.
Too much to do, not enough time.
- hjntmp 6y agoThe beauty of it is that once you craate something and you share it you have already contributed something. I think that what you feel has more to do with your educaction. Like I said it is all in your head and you do that to yourself.
- ZephyrBlu 6y agoContributing "something" isn't that satisfying or fulfilling to me, even though it can undoubtedly be helpful. Perhaps it's just my personality.
- hjntmp 6y agoIn some ways it has to do with the fact that people are educated to have a need for validation from an authority and several other ways of thinking that are completely counterproductive.
- srtjstjsj 6y agoValidation from authority is not counterproductive. People who need zero external validation are at risk of psychotic behavior because they have no grounding.
- hjntmp 6y agoLove, care and a nurturing social structure wihle developing as a child is what keeps a child healthy. What I meant was that self worth is tied with validation from authority. A sense of inadequacy is always fomented and all the other nonsense of the social experiments we call schools.And at some point you need to wake up to the fact that in a way its just a big theater. That's why you have theories like Rousseau's social contract. You need to answer to the question why are we doing this again?
- hjntmp 6y agoYou do that to yourself and of course the system around us is not made to acomodate such freedoms.