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> In theory, it shouldn't. In practice, it does If this is a problem, it needs tackling much more than the facile overlay of pronouns. Now, just from my exper
by throwaway_pdp09 6y ago
> In theory, it shouldn't. In practice, it does
If this is a problem, it needs tackling much more than the facile overlay of pronouns.
Now, just from my experience, and I'm just reporting...
> speak to me differently than when they know I am a woman
This has never happened to me. Always been treated equally either way. Maybe I've been lucky.
> ...and then meets me and sees I'm a woman
I have the occasional reverse happen. It has never, ever, caused any problem. Which does not invalidate your experience, I'm just giving mine.
- DoreenMichele 6y agoI do a lot more to tackle the issue than providing my pronouns. I don't have them in my HN profile. I do have them in my Reddit and Twitter profiles. Part of the reason is I've been on HN eleven years and there is abundant opportunity for people to discover my gender organically in comments here. Different tools are appropriate in different situations.