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I think when it gets to saying these things out loud it might be too late The fact that it would be top of mind at all Could be curiosity or it could be a sta
by foogazi 6y ago
I think when it gets to saying these things out loud it might be too late
The fact that it would be top of mind at all
Could be curiosity or it could be a status play. Are there castes she would/would not hire from, would it be a problem to getting work done?
Edit: I’ve worked with indians my whole career and only recently learned via HN that caste system “carried over” to the US
- samatman 6y agoIt may be because of my habit of blurting out whatever stupid thought I'm having, but believing that someone might blurt out whatever stupid thought they're having comes easy to me.
- andreareina 6y agoI have all sorts of thoughts that I don't act on, or actively work to counteract. Should I be judged on these thoughts that, to a first approximation, I cannot control[1] yet I don't let affect what I do? I'm flawed, but I used to be more so. A big part of that improvement is thanks to the people that judged my actions and not every aberrant thought that entered my head. [1] responsibility is there of course, and I work to reduce their future frequency. But that change takes time, and until then the best remedy to unwanted ingrained patterns is to not act on them.