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Each of my kids was over the moon when they outgrew the booster. Not having it there created so much more room as well. Young child seats are nasty hateful thi

Each of my kids was over the moon when they outgrew the booster. Not having it there created so much more room as well. Young child seats are nasty hateful things that skin your knuckles as you thread them in, and you too bang your head on the roof as you do it so regularly that it almost qualifies as slapstick

saagarjha 6y ago
Booster seats aren’t really that bad, to be honest. Plus they can often serve as extra cupholders, although it may not advisable to utilize them as such if the two moving cupholders right next to them aren’t being careful.
iso1631 6y ago
> Young child seats are nasty hateful things that skin your knuckles as you thread them in For me, the first few months were the seat that just clicked out of the pram frame and into the car base [0] After that was a rear facing seat that just sat in the car. Occasionally we'd move to another car, but that's just "unclick, move, click" [1] Then it was forward facing seats which the kids put their seatbelts on just like adults [2] What type of seats are you on about? [0] https://www.pramworld.co.uk/maxi-cosi-easyfix-base-for-cabriofix-car-seat https://www.pramworld.co.uk/maxi-cosi-easyfix-base-for-cabri... (or similar) [1] https://www.kids-room.com/en/britax-roemer-reboard-child-car-seat-max-fix-ii-stone-grey-2015 https://www.kids-room.com/en/britax-roemer-reboard-child-car... [2] https://www.britax-romer.co.uk/car-seats/highback-boosters/discovery-sl/CSSFCC001.html https://www.britax-romer.co.uk/car-seats/highback-boosters/d...
- ttmb 6y ago
  There's a whole category of seats not covered by your links. Large seats that are forwards/backwards switchable so they last a few years. The seats are tethered to the safety latches, which although they are an "easy click" (two) can be quite tricky depending on the car and the tolerances involved. If the seat is facing forwards, it is also tethered to the sash belt, which I believe is the cause of "skinned knuckles" reference. I 100% empathize with the person you replied to, and found your comment to be a bit dismissive in the "well I don't have a problem" fashion.
  - nostrademons 6y ago
    We have that kind of convertible car seat. Never had a problem with latches or straps (well, other than yesterday, when I had to take it out to fold down the seats & transport a piece of furniture). The car seat stays in the car, the kid plops down in the car seat, and then he either fights us over the 5-point harness or buckles it himself, depending on mood. I think the big difference in perspective is whether you just leave the car seat in the car or take it out for every trip. I had a similar discussion on Facebook where I was like "Why does it matter how heavy the car seat is? It just stays in the car?" and then found out that a lot of people detach the carseats and lug them up to the house and back down every time they take a trip. There's an element of privilege in being able to afford a complete set of car seats for each car you drive, but it totals about $300/kid (less for infants - many infant seats have a clickable base that's ~$100). If you can afford it I would highly recommend it - paying $300 to avoid daily skinned knuckles & schlepping 20-30 lbs. around is often well worth it.
    - iso1631 6y ago
      > There's an element of privilege in being able to afford a complete set of car seats for each car you drive There's more of an element of privilige for regularly being able to drive more than 1 car (or indeed for being able to drive a car anyway)

saagarjha 6y ago

Booster seats aren’t really that bad, to be honest. Plus they can often serve as extra cupholders, although it may not advisable to utilize them as such if the two moving cupholders right next to them aren’t being careful.

iso1631 6y ago

> Young child seats are nasty hateful things that skin your knuckles as you thread them in For me, the first few months were the seat that just clicked out of the pram frame and into the car base [0] After that was a rear facing seat that just sat in the car. Occasionally we'd move to another car, but that's just "unclick, move, click" [1] Then it was forward facing seats which the kids put their seatbelts on just like adults [2] What type of seats are you on about? [0] https://www.pramworld.co.uk/maxi-cosi-easyfix-base-for-cabriofix-car-seat https://www.pramworld.co.uk/maxi-cosi-easyfix-base-for-cabri... (or similar) [1] https://www.kids-room.com/en/britax-roemer-reboard-child-car-seat-max-fix-ii-stone-grey-2015 https://www.kids-room.com/en/britax-roemer-reboard-child-car... [2] https://www.britax-romer.co.uk/car-seats/highback-boosters/discovery-sl/CSSFCC001.html https://www.britax-romer.co.uk/car-seats/highback-boosters/d...

ttmb 6y ago
There's a whole category of seats not covered by your links. Large seats that are forwards/backwards switchable so they last a few years. The seats are tethered to the safety latches, which although they are an "easy click" (two) can be quite tricky depending on the car and the tolerances involved. If the seat is facing forwards, it is also tethered to the sash belt, which I believe is the cause of "skinned knuckles" reference. I 100% empathize with the person you replied to, and found your comment to be a bit dismissive in the "well I don't have a problem" fashion.
- nostrademons 6y ago
  We have that kind of convertible car seat. Never had a problem with latches or straps (well, other than yesterday, when I had to take it out to fold down the seats & transport a piece of furniture). The car seat stays in the car, the kid plops down in the car seat, and then he either fights us over the 5-point harness or buckles it himself, depending on mood. I think the big difference in perspective is whether you just leave the car seat in the car or take it out for every trip. I had a similar discussion on Facebook where I was like "Why does it matter how heavy the car seat is? It just stays in the car?" and then found out that a lot of people detach the carseats and lug them up to the house and back down every time they take a trip. There's an element of privilege in being able to afford a complete set of car seats for each car you drive, but it totals about $300/kid (less for infants - many infant seats have a clickable base that's ~$100). If you can afford it I would highly recommend it - paying $300 to avoid daily skinned knuckles & schlepping 20-30 lbs. around is often well worth it.
  - iso1631 6y ago
    > There's an element of privilege in being able to afford a complete set of car seats for each car you drive There's more of an element of privilige for regularly being able to drive more than 1 car (or indeed for being able to drive a car anyway)