Sounds like my situation. I cope in a similar way. What i tell myself is that a happy mom is probably more significant than most scientific advice about averag

Sounds like my situation. I cope in a similar way. What i tell myself is that a happy mom is probably more significant than most scientific advice about average kids. I think twice or thrice if i really want to push for something. One example I would have pushed for is "no rewards for good grades but for effort" but she actually agreed immediately.