well are you comfortable with your ability at this point? If you need a fresh set of eyes to decide what way to go, my e-mail is in my profile and I could at le

well are you comfortable with your ability at this point? If you need a fresh set of eyes to decide what way to go, my e-mail is in my profile and I could at least try to help a fellow HN'er. If it were me, I would put all my cards on the table to both the GC and cousin and just tell it like it is and how you feel. For some this would not be good advice, but for me, honesty is the best policy no matter how harsh it may be.