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Useful social situations for artificially raising yous status: 1. Attracting a good looking girl. 2. Communicating to your boss that you will not be pushed ar
by keeptrying 16y ago
Useful social situations for artificially raising yous status:
1. Attracting a good looking girl.
2. Communicating to your boss that you will not be pushed around without resorting to words. I used this a lot (maybe a bit too much). But I never had to do shit work that I didnt want to do.
3. Communicating to others who are not in your reporting hierarchy, but still senior to you, that you "get it". IF this is coupled with actual execution capability then you'll gain a lot of credibility pretty fast.
And yes I do agree that if you want to learn something from someone then you do have to assume a slightly lower status.
But the most interesting insight is that status is something that you give to someone else and not something a person can create on their own. Ie, someone elses status requires your active participation.
- keeptrying 16y agoJust wanted to add that if you pull this on a manager who has a slight inferiority complex then he will think your brilliant, regardless of the quality of the work that you produce. This is in turn is something you have to stop from affecting your psyche. Very strange. :)
- SergeyHack 16y ago>... status is something that you give to someone else and not something a person can create on their own. Ie, someone elses status requires your active participation. The pitfall here is the words "your active participation". Huge amount of people have parts of their minds which are out of control of their consciousness. It is often that reacting to someone status signs happens automatically (subconciousnessly). Some people stop doing it after some time passes by, some never stop these uncontrollable reactions.