I have a people pleaser throughout my life. As a small kid I was very timid and had social anxiety. As an adult, I still remain timid and have difficulty expres

I have a people pleaser throughout my life. As a small kid I was very timid and had social anxiety. As an adult, I still remain timid and have difficulty expressing my opinions. My people pleaser attitude had a detrimental effect on my software career. I said yes to all the production support tasks and spent so much time on it that I no longer got project coding work. I lost my software developer job. I have taken up a production support job yo pay the bills. My dreams died with it. I took an interim java coder job. I couldn’t code even one line.