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Yes, this is a good strategy when you already have the skill to say "no". But for someone who just learns it, "soft no" means having to say "no" twice, when th
by Viliam1234 6y ago
Yes, this is a good strategy when you already have the skill to say "no".
But for someone who just learns it, "soft no" means having to say "no" twice, when they barely can say it once.
- dredmorbius 6y agoThe soft no often works. It also helps, tremendously, at sorting out the asshats. Who, thankfully, aren't too prevalent. And gives much practice in saying 'no', even if soft, making the hard noes easier, eventually.