You and I are in similar spots. I was in a relationship where the other party was only happy if I was passive or a doormat. It's a bad thing to get into, beca

You and I are in similar spots. I was in a relationship where the other party was only happy if I was passive or a doormat. It's a bad thing to get into, because you come out the other end forgetting parts of the 'real' you if you do it too long