Find a qualified mental health professional (A really good one) and offer to flip the bill for it. As you seem to be very well meaning, let a professional handl

Find a qualified mental health professional (A really good one) and offer to flip the bill for it. As you seem to be very well meaning, let a professional handle it and see if the behavior improves in the short term. It may or may not be correctable and after that you sort of have your answer.