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I was raised in a Mormon family, which I now understand to be a very similar experience to that of Jehovah's Witnesses. I went on (what was supposed to be) a t
by thomastjeffery 6y ago
I was raised in a Mormon family, which I now understand to be a very similar experience to that of Jehovah's Witnesses.
I went on (what was supposed to be) a two year mission for the LDS church, but grew up telling myself it was out of desire and not obligation. It was definitely about obligation, just like so many other aspects of my life at that time.
I told myself I was going to college to better myself, but that was out of obligation, too.
Similar to Jehovah's Witnesses, Mormonism has created a culture that is explicitly against dissent. Leaders preach from the pulpit often that we should dismiss people whose conclusions are contrary to The Church's narrative or truth claims.
Having recently left my belief in Mormonism, I've been taking a lot of time to reevaluate my goals and life decisions. Years of compromising with conservative Mormonism have left me with a strong appetite for open dissent and honest argument.
Many times, politeness itself is censorship.
- todd_t 6y agoSimilar background, and I completely agree. I left the faith ~8 years ago and went through an identity crisis. I didn't know what I wanted because I always said 'yes'. All of the decisions in my life to that point were mine, sure, but they were essentially made for me...and I was simply to say 'yes'.
- darkerside 6y agoSociety itself is a culture against dissent. We choose to live together despite our differences and make sacrifices for the group over the individual. It's part of the social contract.