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It sounds like prior to joining your company he may have been in financial hardship, so that rather than use his new salary to start renting a place immediately
by jimrandomh 6y ago
It sounds like prior to joining your company he may have been in financial hardship, so that rather than use his new salary to start renting a place immediately, he would rather pay down debt and build up savings. Or he might have not gotten around to or not know how to go about finding a place. In either case, you should talk to him about it. If his reasons are financial, you might find out that he has a timeline in mind (eg 'after my student loan is paid' or 'when I have $x savings'). You might consider offering a salary increase to offset the rent. If it's about getting around to apartment-hunting, you can pay a real estate agent to book him apartment showings.
It's probably important for him to have a decent psychiatrist. He may be defensive about that; I'd go into that conversation with a non-threatening narrative in mind.