Sorry, in trying to be succinct, I came off as harsh. I'm not questioning your motivations. I just think that it is healthier to make statements like 'I want

Sorry, in trying to be succinct, I came off as harsh. I'm not questioning your motivations. I just think that it is healthier to make statements like 'I want to help my child to realize their creativity' or 'I want to help my child realize their programming potential' than to say that 'I want to help my child to do X by Y years'.